As someone who craves new experiences, I love threesomes and have always been intrigued by the excitement of bringing different bodies together. As a companion, I have experienced some profound duos and I know that I love the increased energy of adding a third person. I have also dabbled in some exhibitionism at sex clubs (there should probably be another blog post about this) and was surprised by how exhilarating I found the experience. I have never been on a stage nor particularly confident getting naked in front of a room full of people but something about the charged erotic energy brought out another side of me.
When a kind man who I had enjoyed the company of a few times reached out to inquire about an MFM* duo, I decided it was an experience I wanted to have. We selected a male a provider and set up a date a few weeks away. Admittedly, there was more anxiety than anticipation as I wondered, would it be awkward?
When the three of us met and started to chat some of my nerves settled. The two men declined to interact with each other but expressed their enthusiasm about watching me enjoy the other’s company. While I didn’t find the duo to have quite the same charge as the sex club (and I was probably overthinking how to ensure everyone received equal attention), the experience was fun, exciting, and left me with memories that I continued to replay in my mind.
Recently, I received a new duo invitation. This time, both men involved were bisexual and desired to interact with each other, me, and another woman. On the day of the group date we started with some relaxed drinks while having a clear and explicit conversation about each person’s boundaries; this open communication really put me at ease and increased my confidence because I knew exactly what was exciting for everyone involved. That alone was enough to get my attention, and my heart rate, increasing. The other provider involved was Alexander Arcadia, who I found to be thoughtful, sensual, and…erm…very skilled at what he does. The couple involved had a longstanding sexual relationship, were both very open minded, and were extremely generous lovers.
Because I don’t kiss and tell…I won’t get in to all the details, but I will say that many configurations were explored. As with all group experiences there were a few moments of briefly wondering what to do with myself before someone excitedly welcomed me to join an activity. One unexpected highlight was enjoying a real-life ‘point of view’ experience as one person disappeared deep inside another.
While all duos are unique and have their own excitements, I have found that experiences where all parties desire to interact with each other are the most sexually exciting. I have also learned that having some conversation at the beginning to establish shared interests allows me to feel much more confident once the clothes come off.
Although not for everyone, group sex has been some of my most exciting and enriching experiences over the past few years. I hope you get to experience the duo of your dreams in 2026, and I’ll be extra happy if you send me an invitation to join. 😉
*A note on language. Some use MFM to refer to a dynamic where the woman involved is interacting with both men but the men are not interacting with each other. Correspondingly, MMF refers to a dynamic where everyone is interacting. I find both of these terms to be limited in their understanding of gender and would prefer to shift towards language like group sex but I have included this language here for clarity and educational purposes.
