Some describe me as an intellectual companion; others call me a pleasure muse. I simply see myself as a woman driven by a curious mind and mischievous streak.
That curiosity began in books, where I first discovered entire worlds between the pages of books. A longing for more carried me beyond the library and into cities around the world, from adult only clubs in New Orleans to remote beaches in the Caribbean and unhurried afternoons in European museums.
“With me, you will feel both understood and desired in equal measure.”
Before entering the companionship world, I worked as a counsellor which taught me a great deal about empathy, listening, and the diversity of human experience. After completing a master’s degree, I built a consulting practice that I continue to run today. Yet alongside that professional world, another intellectual fascination was quietly growing: the study of eroticism, pleasure, and human intimacy.
As a lifelong academic, I approached sexuality with the same curiosity I brought to my formal studies. I immersed myself in the psychology and philosophy of desire, exploring subjects like kink, polyamory, embodiment, and the cultural stories we inherit about pleasure. What fascinates me the most is how much more becomes possible when we step beyond routine and allow curiosity to lead.
Today, I bring that same awareness into every experience I share. I am deeply interested in the intersection of mind and body, such as how conversation, easy laughter, and anticipation can shape an experience just as much as touch.
Desires & Delights
Love language?
Acts of service, words of affirmation and scalp massages.
Celebrity lookalike?
Emma Watson plus magical curves.
Pet peeves?
Fluorescent lighting and primary colours.
Go-to drink?
8oz cappuccino and an Aperol spritz, preferably at the same time.
Signature scent?
Honey tobacco.
Life soundtrack?
Dancing in the kitchen to R&B.
Go-to wedding gift?
Lube and a stack of dollar bills for the happy couple.
Life motto?
"Progress not perfection"
The one thing I'd love to know about you is…
What does intimacy mean to you?
Rhythms & Rituals
Dream job?
A hot sex therapist who you run into at a sex party.
Future goals?
Own my own home and tend a garden.
Dream travel destination?
The coast of Ireland.
Last book?
The Land in Our Bones: Plantcestral Herbalism by Layla K. Feghali.
Most spontaneous thing?
Traveled to the Colombian jungle on a week's notice and without a yellow fever vaccine.
The way to win me over is…
Make a donation to a charity that I care about (Intimate Access, Nesting Doula Collective, Heart and Hands Collective).
This year, I really want to…
Try the best restaurants in Vancouver with a lovely dinner guest.
What I value most are intentional, well-crafted experiences, whether through a passionate introduction, sensual massage, or escape to somewhere new. While I appreciate beautiful surroundings, what truly captivates me are thoughtful, intentionally curated moments.
I relish in experiences that range from the mild to the wild, always with a sparkle of mischief.
My favourite encounters tend to blur the line between intellectual and sensual curiosity. Perhaps we begin with dinner, exchanging stories about the books currently on our nightstands and the places still waiting on our travel lists. As the conversation deepens and the chemistry grows, a lingering glance or playful touch becomes its own quiet language.
I’m always delighted by invitations to try something new: a night at the theatre, a spontaneous getaway, a live game, or a concert that matters to you. I enjoy stepping into your world just as much as sharing mine. Travel is a particular passion; Dublin and Hong Kong are currently calling my name.
Between consulting, travel, and time with close friends, my calendar fills up. I am selective with my time and I prioritize invitations that feel meaningful and intentional. When I’m not working or exploring, you’ll find me with a book in hand, mapping out my next travel destination, or at home with my two rescue dogs.
The earlier you send your invitation, the sooner I can arrange for the dog sitter and start looking forward to our next adventure.
